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I come from a long line of deeply religious Catholics: my aunt was a teacher at a suburban parish near Philadelphia for 40 years, my father attends mass every Sunday — as does my grandfather — and my entire family (all but me) attended Catholic school. I made both my sacraments and my daughter, shockingly, attended Catholic school for two years. Even my partner was an altar boy. Catholicism runs deep; just like our Irish roots.
But that’s where faith begins and ends for me. I can not support a church hierarchy that knowingly harbors pedophiles, blatantly attempts to silence women who dare not take a pro-life stance, one that considers using birth control an abomination and sacrilege and goes out of its way to openly risk the lives of the faithful in developing nations by condemning the use of condoms to prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS.
The Catholic Church would be a joke if wasn’t clouded in religion and fanaticism. Through the cloak of Jesus and a higher order, children have been raped, thousands have unknowingly contracted AIDS and countless women have died seeking anything to insert or consume so they are no longer pregnant.
In Philadelphia, we just so happen to be the only place in the United States where a church official now sits in jail for covering up the rape of children. Monsignor William J. Lynn will rot in jail for a measly three to six years. In Los Angeles, the Archdiocese can’t even be trusted to release all of its documents pertaining to the protection of abusive priests. Retired Cardinal Roger Mahoney, who was once known as a beloved advocate for Latino rights, remains free of prosecution. The lawsuit that demanded the release of said documents includes more than 500 victims.
When my daughter was in Catholic school, in order to volunteer, her father and I had to sit through hours of “training” on good touch/bad touch; as if the parents were the problem and not every Tom, Dick and Harry that wore a collar. At the very least, it was absurd and tone deaf. There are good priests, but their silence is acceptance that rape is something you cover up for the good of the church.
No one is more accountable then Pope Benedict; who, back when he was Joseph Ratzinger, was a member of the Nazi youth (but only because “they put him there”) and who was more than okay with revoking the ex-communication of a Holocaust denier. Ratzinger also oversaw the Doctrine of the Faith; the governing office of Rome and the place where accounts of abusive priests land.
Benedict may be old, but he’s not stupid. He’s also the Pope that green-lit the investigation of nuns calling them “radical feminists” for helping poor women and not taking a stance on birth control or abortion. If you want to see what the Church thinks of women, you must follow this story.
In this country we prosecute La Cosa Nostra more than church officials. The mafia’s crimes look like child’s play (even the murders) compared to the abuse of children within the Catholic church. It’s disgusting that state and federal prosecutors (except Philadelphia) lack the cajones to dismantle the Catholic church — proving that you can get away with just about anything as long as you do it under the banner of faith.
So, no, not for one minute do I believe that Benedict is too old and feeble to carry on his duties as Pope. He is the first in six centuries to leave. And, as far as I’m concerned, don’t let the door hit you on the way out.
Good riddance.



Brilliant, Liz.
I went to Catholic school for 14 years and have a similar family background on my father’s side, which was definitely my main influence in religion/culture. I have repeatedly told my mother for years that I can’t support this organization, and it has nothing to do with my love for how I was raised and all of the good that was taught to me by my family members and the good educators I had (along with many bad ones, in my case, nuns.) I would love to be able to speak prayers that still comfort me in a church that still makes me feel physically at home, but to do so is to be complicit in all of the things that you mention here. It’s a sad shame and a reflection of so many literal crimes that it boggles mind.
I really appreciate how you broke it down here.
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I’ve never felt at home at church, but I have felt completely bored. Heh. I wish you could find the place you love too. At least your self-aware about it. When I told my father he was all: so, what he’s just retiring and shrugged off the whole 600 years since the last one “retired.”
I am also an ex-Catholic school kid. My mother still attends and my father attended church till he died.
More crimes have been committed in the name of religion than is thinkable. Possibly Pope Scary as I like to call him was up to no good or he has dementia. Either way I feel the same, don’t let the door slam you on the butt on the way out dude.
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Pope Scary the 16th. It has a certain flare. You know to match the hat and cape.
Hey! Quit beating around the bush. Tell us how you really feel.
I’m with you. I don’t care what religion people want to be, but when it comes at the cost of children’s safety and emotional well being, I draw a hard line. Thanks for putting this out there, because in my disdain for the church, I have quit paying attention to all of the details.
They still haven’t apologized for the Indian Residential School fiasco. http://changethetopic.com/life-2/god-is-great-grief-is-good-and-injuns-are-crazy/
They weren’t the only church involved, but the others at least apologized and admitted that the horrible abuse had taken place. Grrrr.
I have a problem with beating around the bush. Mainly the “around the bush” part. I tend to run right through it.
Thank you for the link; I plan to read it. I didn’t know about Indian Residential School. As soon as I read, I’ll comment. But you mean apologize without being compelled to pay a multi-millions? NO!
Um-wonder if shits getting real in Rome. Why else would you resign? I too am a lifelong catholic and love my faith, but not my human leaders….
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I was raised Catholic as well. My family are from Poland and Italy…enuff said! I could not agree with you more, point for point. I really don’t believe in organized religion at all. To each his own, however. Catholic doctrine is archaic, misogynistic and oppressive. The more guilt they can make people feel the more money they make. Sell off the Vatican piece by piece and feed a couple million starving people. I am struggling right now because my third kid is about to make communion. Yes I am a hypocrite for letting her but I figure she can decide what path to follow when she’s older. I also don’t want to deal with old school relatives who’ll flog themselves if she doesn’t “marry Jesus” as her CCD teacher puts it. I attached a blog post you might be interested in just because it’s related to this topic. Thank you for speaking out.
http://www.momsinneverneverland.com/2012/10/fire-and-brimstone.html
I’ve always though Pope Benedict looked like the evil emperor from Star Wars. He’s always given me the creeps. When I heard he was in the Nazi Youth, I became incensed. He’s needed to go for a long time.
I’d LOVE to believe that he’s afraid of an Illuminati assassination attempt and not his failing health because that would make me laugh hard.
I come from an Irish, formerly Catholic family, too. My great great grandmother and grandfather landed in Philadelphia when they emigrated to America. My father was raised in the church, went to Catholic school, the whole nine yards. But when my grandma was refused burial in the Catholic cemetery because she had divorced grandad and re-married, my dad and uncles lost it. It did not matter that even though grandma was penniless and could barely feed her three sons, she gave to the church regularly. Or that grandpa had essentially abandoned the family, gone to New Jersey, changed his name and social security number to avoid being found and that’s why she divorced him. My dad PUNCHED OUT THE PRIEST and declared that our family was now PROTESTANT. There is nothing worse you can tell an Irish priest than that!
Besides, my father believed that you did not need to talk to God through a priest and that the forced celibacy was unnatural.
As for why LA won’t prosecute pedophile priests? We have a LARGE Hispanic population here and prosecution of the church would lose the idiot politicians here votes. It’s all strategy. No one cares about the kids, just their bottom line.
Do you have any idea how many known and unknown sex offenders are teaching in the LA Unified School District? They find new ones daily. But the LAUSD basically does nothing because they don’t want to lose their salaries. Yes, SALARIES. LAUSD is the only school board in the nation that earns a hefty income — $50,000+ a year. Teachers make close to 90k a year in the LAUSD. Who wants to lose that because of a scandal or their corruption coming to light?
If they’re reluctant to go after pedophile teachers, what makes you think the LA authorities would go after bad priests?
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